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Stop Waiting for Permission

You may be waiting for someone to confirm that your next step is acceptable. Decide what is actually yours to choose, accept the responsibility, and move.

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An open gate on a quiet path, representing the choice to move without waiting for permission

Sometimes you already know what you want to change, but you keep looking for someone to tell you it is reasonable. You want a manager, partner, parent, friend, or imagined audience to confirm that you are allowed to want something different.

Advice can be useful. Permission is different. If the decision is genuinely yours, waiting for approval can become a way to avoid the responsibility that comes with choosing.

Identify what is actually yours to decide

Decide what is actually yours to choose, accept the responsibility, and move.

You may be waiting for someone to confirm that your next step is acceptable.

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